Why Men Pull Away Early Stages

Why Men Pull Away Early Stages

Why Men Pull Away Early Stages is a common question among many lovely ladies. It too, was a question I constantly asked myself when I was first dating.

I mean why do men pull away when they like you? You are showing me that you’re keen, but why are you pulling away.

This can really play on your mind and leave you jumping to all the wrong conclusions. My heart felt like it was going to flop out of my chest.

Why Men Pull Away Early Stages – Analyzing The Situation

Before you proceed to jump to all the wrong conclusions, take a step back and ask yourself what may be causing this behavior. So yeah, ‘don’t freak out’.

Keep your instincts at bay and let logic prevail. There is always a logical answer to the sudden aloof behavior.

When I first wondered why he was pulling away when I tried to get close, I automatically thought, ‘oh no, he has lost interest, is it someone else, am I no longer attractive to him’.

They are some really negative, detrimental thoughts that played havoc on my stress levels. My heart would literally feel like falling out of my chest because of these thoughts.

BUT I snapped out of it and asked myself, hang on whats really happening here. Do I smell funny? Nope, freshly groomed and perfume on point. It has to be something else that I’m missing.

Ask yourself, Has he recently communicated any possible issues he is facing?

I asked myself that exact question and without even giving it any real thought, yes he had, but it didn’t seem overly serious to me at the time.

He mentioned the stress he was facing at work due to a current re structuring of his workplace, but the way he explained it appeared to be shrugged off as a ‘no biggy’ and I took it with a grain of salt.

This was probably a mistake on my part, blokes tend to down play their emotions and how a situation is effecting them to maintain their proud or macho persona.

So why men pull away early stages isn’t always a case of oh ‘he doesn’t like me anymore’ or ‘ is it someone else’ no, they can be complex beings, believe it or not.

Never Be Afraid To Ask – In a Caring and Neutral Manner?

If you have logically narrowed down an idea on why he is pulling away, then ask him. Don’t be aggressive with your approach, ask in a more caring manner.

If you start the conversation off with, what is wrong with you? Why are you being so stand offish? It will end in tears every time. Not the best approach.

Instead, ask in a neutral and caring manner you can only get a straight answer. Then once you’ve asked the tricky question dig a little deeper.

Before you know it you are openly talking about the issue at hand and you will know exactly why he has been so standoffish. A majority of the time, the cause will be something in his life is demanding all of his attention.

Which you will learn after having the above convo. When you find that something at work or his immediate family is demanding his time, ask if you can help.

Also, as hard as this may be don’t be afraid to offer him space, he will respect that immensely.

There is nothing worse than being ‘smothered’ by a needy person when dealing with a major issue. Or alternatively, ask if you can help in any way, by taking care of some of his errands for example.

Yes, I know it’s not all about him and it is a two way street, but that’s what a relationship is all about. Helping and supporting each other when going through tough times.

How To Keep Things On Track

Now that you have found out the reason to why men pull away early stages, you can focus on the future. Has he asked you to help in anyway? Then focus on lending a hand and being supportive through the time of struggle.

You should get an idea on when things are likely to calm down, so don’t be afraid to suggest going on fun dates etc as a bit of a ‘break’ from the norm.

Depending on your partner, this could be a movie night, dinner and drinks, watch a live gig together or anything you both enjoy.

Be Selfish When The Time Calls

Sometimes, you need to be selfish in a relationship and look after numero uno. If you have approached the situation in a caring and neutral manner and are still getting nothing, then you can do two things.

Take a step back and learn what works to make yourself happy regardless of being in a relationship. Depending on a relationship for happiness is a dangerous spiral to fall into.

Focus on spoiling yourself and putting out positive vibes to the world and you will be rewarded in spades. Remember, like attracts like.

There is nothing wrong with taking responsibility and learning what works and then putting that into play to create a better relationship for yourself. Your happiness is not dependent on anyone or anything except for your own self.

It’s Your life and it is exactly what you make of it, don’t rely on external factors to make you happy. Being happy within yourself is huge to your long term success in every relationship you cultivate.

Well, that’s me signing out. I hope you have enjoyed my article and can mull things over with your partner to enjoy long term happiness.

I sincerely hope that I have answered enough of your questions and no longer need to search for why men pull away early stages.

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The Devotion System Review

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I’m guessing you have stumbled across this page because your curious about the Devotion system? I don’t blame you, I was in exactly the same boat and felt compelled to give you my first hand experience with the product.

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Before I get into the nitty gritty, ill give you a super quick rundown about who I am.

My name is Sarah, currently a full time nurse living in Sydney, Australia. My hobby is blogging, I do it part time and guest blog on several different websites such as this one here.

I have been in and out of relationships for most of my life and really struggled to keep a steady partner. It really sucked, after a while it makes you feel pretty average and creates immense self doubt.

But I didn’t let my past results shape the future and set out to find relationship advice on the old google machine. I went searching through woman’s forums and dating forums seeking answers on how to hold a steady relationship.

That’s when I stumbled across The Devotion System by Amy North.

I noticed quite a few ladies had mentioned the product in the forums, so I just had to check it out for myself.

I am a conscious online buyer and always seek reviews, at the time there were pretty generic versions of The Devotion System Review that were somewhat light on content.

So after buying the product, experiencing it first hand and actually getting positive result’s I had to give you all my humble opinion and experience with the product.

The Devotion System Review

There are so many online relationship advice websites around but Amy North’s is a little different than the others.

Her book and advice in my opinion go against the grain of everyday, run of the mill advice.

Most relationship councillors tell you the same old thing, communicate, make them feel secure etc etc. Thinking to my myself, Yeah, yeah I’ve heard all of that before but I want more detail.

Well Amy North’s finely crafted Devotion System provides comprehensive advice on how to find, nurture and keep a meaningful, loving relationship.

It even comes with the guarantee that for some reason you’re not happy you can demand a full refund. I don’t know about you but that’s the peace of mind I’m always after when buying online.

What Set’s The Devotion System Apart  

The Devotion System is extremely detailed and comprehensive. My problem, that I soon realized after buying the book was I was looking for the ‘right’ guy in all the ‘wrong’ places.

This made so much sense as to why my relationships never lasted.

The book covers topics such as where to find a man that’s likely to have similar interests. This one tip alone is a huge step forward in fine tuning your approach in the dating game, it really was an eye opener for me personally.

The Devotion System includes advice on pretty much every aspect of meeting a guy, for women. From how to get a guy’s number, to sending the first text message. It even covers how to bring up the Marriage discussion.

I am no where near ready for that just yet, but it’s good to know that Amy has thought to cover that off.

Also, I found it refreshing that the book is suitable for any women, at any stage in their life. If you’re 18 or 50 it doesn’t matter, just start reading and you will see what I mean.

Amy North is a woman’s, woman and calls a spade a spade so no sugar coating here. I personally respect people who tell it like it is, to me that’s honesty.

Why beat around the bush when you can get straight to the point, Amy does that well.

The book is categorized into 3 main sections, the first section is dedicated to the importance of self love.

It explains how to brush off any long lasting hang-ups and unhealthy behaviors your harboring to put you in good stead to find true love. Personally, I like that approach because you need to be the best version of yourself.

You need to be totally confident, secure and love yourself before anyone else can.

Amy covers in great depth on how you can be hung up on previous “relationship hangovers” and its effects. The advice in this topic alone was a huge eye opener, it really hit home and allowed me to self adjust my way of thinking.

I used to always judge myself based on my last relationship, which had fizzled. So that left me in a real crappy circle of negative thinking and ultimately lead to the same result, me being single.

But after Amy pretty much hit the nail on the head, I have since changed my way of thinking. Ladies, never ever under estimate the power of positive thinking, that stuff is the real deal and can produce amazing results.

But you need to be consistent, I had to re-read the content as I fell into the old way of thinking. That is my advice when utilizing the content, keep it fresh in your mind and stay on track.

Part 2 covered the topic of understanding men, I mean can we ever really understand men? Lol. Amy has come pretty close by thoroughly analyzing their human behaviors extremely thoroughly.

She then proceeds to explain it in layman’s terms, so everyday women like you and me can make sense of it all.

In part 3 Amy covers how to naturally progress your relationship into love and commitment. This is something that I have struggled to foster in my past relationships. I now know why and it’s a little embarrassing to admit. ‘

The reason I was failing in a lasting relationship, was because I was flat out meeting guys in the wrong places.

I was Expecting those guys to turn out to be long lasting partners, when really we were polar opposites. It all comes down to where you meet men, for example at a café with free wifi while blogging (hint: that’s where I met my new partner – also a blogger).

The key is, you want to meet someone at a place that you both enjoy. The reason is, drum-roll please, you automatically know you have similar interests.

So simple hey? But its effective and is a great place to start things on the right foot.

Why Should We Listen To Amy North?

This is one of the main questions that I had in the back of my mind before I purchased her book.

Who is this Lady and why is she qualified on the topic? Well it turns out after a little research that Amy north is an extremely well respected Dating coach with positive reviews a mile long.

She has been able to get an incredible insight from the men she works with, now that is some real juicy insider knowledge right there.

Some of her clients who are male talk about their fears, insecurities and deeply rooted true sexual and intimacy related desires.

That in itself is hugely useful for understanding how men tick. Having Amy share her findings in a strategic and documented manner via her book has been not only interesting but incredibly helpful.

Amy has carefully documented different ‘types’ of men and explains what each different type truly desires.

Incredibly Good Stuff! Seriously. Amy then takes all that one step further and explains how to effectively communicate, text and read each different type of male.

This will turn you into a man eater, lol you will have your men on toast ladies. Isn’t it time we took control of our love life and not the other way around? Well Amy’s book has allowed me to do just that.

What I Don’t Like!

As part of my version of The Devotion System Review I just had to mention one of my biggest pet peeves about this product.

That pet peeve is that you cannot purchase a physical version of the product. Currently it is only available online in the e-book format. If you’re like me, somewhat oldschool then it’s a tad annoying.

I started reading it on my laptop but quickly got over that Idea and printed a hard copy. On the flip side, you do get immediate access to its content after purchase so that’s always good.

Nothing worse than buying something online and waiting for the product to arrive.

The Devotion System Review – My Summary:

The book and content comes from a women who really knows her stuff, that cannot be argued. She covers literally every step in meeting your ideal man, to keeping him interested, migrating into love and marriage.

I’m not going to go into this too much more but this book has been a real eye opener for me personally. Hence why I felt excited and compelled to write my version of The Devotion System Review.

I almost forgot to mention, the book also comes with customer support and when you buy the book using the below coupon I managed to find on the dating forum you get extra bonus content and save 50% off.

The bonus content is a 13 part video training series (that I haven’t watched yet) and 3 bonus ebooks.

When I used the coupon, the discount was automatically applied to my shopping cart. So you just click and make the purchase at the discounted price & the bonus content is included.

I found that Rather Convenient! You can thank the Ladies in the dating forum for that one!

I’ve put a link to the coupon I used below, or you can click here. Up To You.

The Devotion System Coupon – Bonus Content & Discount

Thanks for Reading my version of The Devotion System Review.

 

 

 

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